Before engaging in meet-ups arranged through our app, please take a moment to review our safety guidelines to ensure a secure and positive experience. These tips cover essential steps to take before, during, and after the meet-up.
Before the Meet-Up
• Use Photo Galleries: Check the extensive photo galleries and linked socials to ensure the person you’re meeting appears genuine and consistent.
• Communicate Clearly: Once a meet-up in confirmed, use the in-app chat feature to discuss meet-up details. Confirm the time, place, activity, and any associated costs.
• Agree on Costs: Discuss and agree on how to share any costs for the activity upfront. Ensure both parties are clear about the cost-sharing arrangement.
• Choose a Public Location: Always arrange to meet in a busy, public place like a café, sports/fitness centre, park, or pub. Avoid private or secluded areas.
• Tell Someone: Inform a friend or family member about your plans. Share the details of your meet-up, including who you are meeting, where, and when.
• Arrange Your Own Transport: Travel to and from the meet-up location independently. Avoid accepting lifts from the person you are meeting.
• Trust Your Instincts: If anything feels off or you’re uncomfortable at any point before the meet-up, don’t hesitate to cancel.
During the Meet-Up
• Stay in Public Areas: Remain in public, well-lit areas during the meet-up. Avoid moving to secluded places.
• Keep Personal Items Secure: Keep your belongings close and secure. Be mindful of your drink and food to avoid tampering.
• Be Cautious with Personal Information: Do not share sensitive personal details such as your home address, financial information, or passwords.
• Limit Alcohol Consumption: If you choose to drink, do so responsibly and avoid excessive consumption.
• Have an Exit Plan: Plan how you’ll leave if you feel uncomfortable. Excuse yourself politely if you need to end the meet-up early.
• Share Costs Fairly: Stick to the agreed-upon cost-sharing arrangement for the activity. Offer to pay your fair share and avoid any disputes over money.
After the Meet-Up
• Reflect on the Experience: Consider how the meet-up went and whether you would like to meet the person again.
• Report Concerns: If you experience or observe any inappropriate behavior, report it through the app’s reporting features immediately.
Guidelines for Honest and Respectful Online Communication
Honesty
• Be Genuine: Present yourself authentically. Use recent photos and accurate information about yourself.
• Be Transparent: Be clear about your intentions for using the app, whether it’s to make new friends, network, or find social activities.
Respect
• Respect Boundaries: Recognise and respect others’ boundaries. Do not pressure anyone to share more than they are comfortable with.
• Use Polite Language: Communicate politely and avoid using offensive or inappropriate language.
• Be Patient: Understand that building connections takes time. Be patient and don’t rush others into meeting up.
Communication
• Listen Actively: Pay attention to what others are saying and show genuine interest in their thoughts and feelings.
• Respond Promptly: Try to respond to messages in a timely manner. If you’re busy, let the other person know when you’ll be able to reply.
• Clarify Intentions: Make your intentions clear and avoid leading others on. If your plans change, communicate this as soon as possible.
By adhering to these safety tips and guidelines, users can enjoy positive and safe experiences both online and during face-to-face meet-ups. Thank you for helping to create a respectful and secure community on our app.